I normally try to keep my personal opinions on certain subjects to myself, but I feel like sharing some of my knowledge today. First off, I am not saying I am an expert on this subject (pretty far from it actually) at all. I honestly feel like the world needs more love and not just "I love you when it is convenient for me," but real unconditional love.
Love is something can is not made or created overnight. Every single day you have to work on your ability to love others. There is so much to love about the world, your life, and those in your life. It is developed slowly and over time. Sometimes you don't even realize how much you really care about a person until that love is put to the test. Love cannot be faked either. It is really easy to confuse love with lust or other silly emotions, but it cannot be falsified.
Mistakes and mess-ups in life show that we are human. They show that we are growing and trying every single day. It is not our job to judge others or the situation they are in. We just need to be their with our love and support. Friendships are some of the greatest relationships we have in this life. Your love should be extended to others no matter how they are doing in life. Sometimes people need your support and love to help them get through their tough spots in life.
We do not always get to choose who enters into our lives, but we get to choose how we treat them. We need to remember that everyone is has their own back story and we need to respect that. If we just try to understand others and have compassion towards them, we will start to see a whole other side of them. Love helps us see past the surface and into the souls of others.
We also need to remember to let people love us. We cannot shut ourselves off from the world. It is really hard for people to love us if we refuse to let them. Love requires the effort of two people. Most people forget that over time. Love needs to be exercised, expressed, and strengthened every single day of our lives.
Remember to smile and to love. The world is a lot prettier when we love. :)